the Departing Lessons...

sooo... my blogs reflect the moods that am in.. my last one was a very self-conceited one, which I have changed it many times (check out now, if u havnt yet!!).. esp the last para.. every time I see it.. I felt..uh, cmon!! .. sooo... the point was.. I wrote it to boast myself (lol..) and for some other reasons..which could be too complicated for ur comprehension.. and mine as well..lol..

now coming to this blog... the theme is of getting Departed.. well.. most of my friends are done with school, including myself... so every one is leaving the school.. and going in search of jobs.. in the direction they chose..and some of them are leaving to India.. some of them for vacation (holiday trips).. soo.. its like getting departed from the school, place, room-mates, friends and the loved ones (supposedly)..

well.. every one of us are moving into a new phase of life now. Rohit is already there, by now. He is the one, who left the place today and the first among our group..the new place, new acquaintances, pressure to get a job, expectations back at home and everything. And in a couple of days another 5 of us would leave from the school and I will the be last one to leave this place.. and already a bunch of 7 guys left for a trip.. and another bunch of 10 guyz are going to India.. so I will be left with a couple of friends for the next few days..before I leave this place. This would help me a bit.. to get used to, at the new place... like a rehearsal..lol..

Even though these friends have their own priorities towards life and priorities among friends..its like .. we still feel bad, when departing.. I mean.. some of us, give more priority to other female/ male friends or to just themselves, than to their rest of friends or roommates, for whom they depend on most things at home or school... it kinda frustrates us some times.. but at the end of the day.. we forget everything... or its just me..??

Whether its peer-pressure or the drive to become more successful or dont want to take any chances.. some of us.. wont communicate the important things and help others.. and for every revelation of these child-acts.. there was an excuse.. and to mind every one.. all our friends are just one phone call away.. We some times wont expect any support from some of our colleagues (better word than friends, for them).. but we expect it from some of them.. when we wont get that.. everything looks dark and useless.

These pretty good lessons have taught me ,everything I could ask for from my life..

Well, even though I have compensated from these losses, on a gross I have accumulated a lil bit of net loss. But being a firm-believer in Karma (what goes around..comes around..lol).. I have been firmly rewarded in due time..by the Ultimate power..which I believe in..

Anywayz, my final point.. is.. we fight, support, joke on each other, pardy , eat dance, drink.. and everything is part and parcel of friendship.. Everybody is humane.. and Being humane we sometimes commit mistakes.. I had my share as well.. but then, being ethical is important and I have tried to compensate my mistakes.. by doing something.. I hope everybody does.. and if not I hope u wud do it..after reading this blog..lol.. All I wana say is.. there is nothing wrong in having priorities... but when we depend on or use something.. we have the liability of it.. and whatever we do..we should take its responsibilty and go with the universal ethics.. I mean the rational.. not the philospohical or religious ethics... And dont depend on others or someting.. it could be fatal some times.. Try to do everything by urself.. atleast we'll have the satisfaction, that boasts our morale.

Just believe in yourself and go with the right instincts. Success is just our own comprehension.